KEEPING YOUR MAN CLOSER

THE FOOD HE EATS

  The problem today is that we have in most areas of life forgotten the old path that would easily lead to success.Iam so surprise that for so many women today the saying that,"The way to a man's heart is through his stomach" has lost lost its meaning completely. They do not know that this statement holds true as it did 100 years ago.
  Therefore, one of  the things, I mean one of the vital things a woman must do perfectly to keep her man closer is to handle the food perfectly well.
   Many miss this rule.No wonder why they suffer the consequences.Not the house girl but you who are to cook and serve your husband (fiance) this food. Many women today in the name of being busy have over delegated this function to their house-maids that they allow them to fit into this role.No wonder that since that is the way to Oga's heart most house-maids today have transformed into Oga's favourite and even snatched the official baton from "The Madam".
   The time for Oga's food should be a celebration time. Time to celebrate your love,regard and closeness to him.Time to recommend yourself to him. Do not just drop the food and with a message and walk away. No!it should not happen that way.At least once a day serve the food, stay on and sit opposite him.
Appreciate this man, tell him some sweet stories to match.Ask if the food needed some more of better touch than that.You are a woman .Woman means "studied softness". This quality must manifest during meal time.
   There is no doubt that most marriages are breaking down today because husbands/fiances are left alone too much -They eat their meals alone;sleep alone and think alone,and yet God says,"It is not good for a man to be alone"
  The most funniest thing is to keep the man so close to the point that if  for only one day he does not see you,will almost go crazy.That is the point of success for any  woman.This brand of closeness is on the meal table.
   Behold a perfect picture, on the wedding day,spouses publicly feed the cake into each others mouth. Really, why is it that back at home, during meals this cannot happen? Closeness on the meal table -even if that closeness transforms into "something else".
    A corollary of what we are saying is that you have to know the favourite food of your Oga.How to cook it.Take time to find out;ask him;learn about this from him and learn to cook them if you did not already know.It is a sheer waste of time to make a full grown man like the food you like in the name of love.Rather you must meet him in his own time and ask which type of food he prefers.
    Certainly, the food the man eats cooking it right,chewing it right and more especially affording him your presence while he eats is one sure way of keeping the man closer.
    Indeed, for any man , even if he is the highest man of God on this earth,two forces are available for the woman to use in keeping him closer-These are FOOD and LOVE-MAKING.Food have been addressed here and in later post I shall write on how to use the power of love-making to keep your man closer.