Wednesday, February 17, 2010

HOW TO USE LOVE-MAKING TO KEEP YOUR MAN CLOSER

DO YOU KNOW HIS BED CODE NUMBER?
    One very great revelation that God has made me to understand is that marital stability is in the bedroom.
Any marriage that has lost "sweetness" in the secret room cannot be gained in the parlour or in the street.In essence how you deal with your man in the bedroom will determine whether you will lose him or keep him closer.
     That is the truth! Therefore,it is not even enough to simply lie down on bed and say,"Oga, see me" That is not enough! In a world where even some women know that a man is already married yet they go ahead to drag the man to bed it will surely take something more than a sheer lying down on bed for you to keep him closer.
      Do you know his bed code number? "Bed code number?" What is it? In what way does your man like to be opened to love-making? What "styles"does he like? How does he like to be treated in bed?
Because, to every man there is/are way/s that he likes to see you respond to his bid to love-making.Some men like it through the back and when it is given that way he becomes crazy.Some men prefer that the woman lies on them.Some other men say,"Just let me do it all alone" There are many ways. But, in order to keep your man closer find out from him which way he likes most.
      You cannot aford to be passive in bed and satisfy youeself that Oga his happy.No! what can even happen is that if you donot actively seek to know his "code number",he could finish doing it with you and then seek another woman outside who now presents to him his natural way that he appreciates.
       Most men would consider it childish to call you and tell you:"This is how I like it" No a lot of men will not do that.Rather,it is you who have to trap him down, and ask him to know, so that you can serve him better.You need to. They say women are fond of pretending,but I should rather think that men pretend more.What a man may tell you is not important in romance circles
       I know that the reason while some men still go out after other women is to seek for that woman that comes to know their code number.
       Did you know that what can turn a man on is the way you caress him, hold him close,and he now comes closer?

Thursday, February 11, 2010

KEEPING YOUR MAN CLOSER

THE FOOD HE EATS
  The problem today is that we have in most areas of life forgotten the old path that would easily lead to success.Iam so surprise that for so many women today the saying that,"The way to a man's heart is through his stomach" has lost lost its meaning completely. They do not know that this statement holds true as it did 100 years ago.
  Therefore, one of  the things, I mean one of the vital things a woman must do perfectly to keep her man closer is to handle the food perfectly well.
   Many miss this rule.No wonder why they suffer the consequences.Not the house girl but you who are to cook and serve your husband (fiance) this food. Many women today in the name of being busy have over delegated this function to their house-maids that they allow them to fit into this role.No wonder that since that is the way to Oga's heart most house-maids today have transformed into Oga's favourite and even snatched the official baton from "The Madam".
   The time for Oga's food should be a celebration time. Time to celebrate your love,regard and closeness to him.Time to recommend yourself to him. Do not just drop the food and with a message and walk away. No!it should not happen that way.At least once a day serve the food, stay on and sit opposite him.
Appreciate this man, tell him some sweet stories to match.Ask if the food needed some more of better touch than that.You are a woman .Woman means "studied softness". This quality must manifest during meal time.
   There is no doubt that most marriages are breaking down today because husbands/fiances are left alone too much -They eat their meals alone;sleep alone and think alone,and yet God says,"It is not good for a man to be alone"
  The most funniest thing is to keep the man so close to the point that if  for only one day he does not see you,will almost go crazy.That is the point of success for any  woman.This brand of closeness is on the meal table.
   Behold a perfect picture, on the wedding day,spouses publicly feed the cake into each others mouth. Really, why is it that back at home, during meals this cannot happen? Closeness on the meal table -even if that closeness transforms into "something else".
    A corollary of what we are saying is that you have to know the favourite food of your Oga.How to cook it.Take time to find out;ask him;learn about this from him and learn to cook them if you did not already know.It is a sheer waste of time to make a full grown man like the food you like in the name of love.Rather you must meet him in his own time and ask which type of food he prefers.
    Certainly, the food the man eats cooking it right,chewing it right and more especially affording him your presence while he eats is one sure way of keeping the man closer.
    Indeed, for any man , even if he is the highest man of God on this earth,two forces are available for the woman to use in keeping him closer-These are FOOD and LOVE-MAKING.Food have been addressed here and in later post I shall write on how to use the power of love-making to keep your man closer.      

KEEPING YOUR MAN CLOSER

It is pathetic or rather unfortunate to see that many marriages today are falling apart because most women do not know how to keep the man in their life(their husband) close enough.As a man, I understand vividly those things if a woman does will make a man keep coming and sleeping cool on her laps.
But for most women, it is something secret. There are so many girls/ladies today whose sole desire is to get married to a man of their dream,but for the fact that they do not know how to hold a man, they keep missing untill finally, they miss out all the time thereby blaming their fate on demons or voduu(juju).
The question now is,"How can your husband or fiance be kept closer?"From the way you handle his food to the way you become concern about his job, profession, business coupled with finding time to give him some gifts-add this to your prayers for him.These amongst others will defintely keep your man closer.
Read on, and find out for yourself.I wish you a happy relationship now and always.
THE FOOD HE EATS (To Be Continued In The Next Post) keep a date!